a kairos moment…

Never in our wildest dreams did we think we would move to the heart of KCK and give our lives to serving the Bhutanese.  In fact, we hadn’t even heard of Bhutan until about a year ago…and now we serve these wonderful people, build community with them, live amongst them and call them our friends.

Early on in our marriage we prayerful pursued committing our lives to long term missions.  We didn’t know what that actually meant or what it would look like, but we knew that we wanted to give our lives to this. We also knew that if we couldn’t do this here in our own city then we probably wouldn’t be very good at it in another country. So we began to orient our lives towards a missional lifestyle in our own neighborhood – sharing Jesus generously and always with our neighbors through both word and deed. It was an exciting time.  We learned so much about hospitality, how to serve people well and  how to build community while pointing people to Christ.

During this season we really began to ask the Lord where he wanted us.  We were looking and we were willing and ready to say yes to whatever he might call us to. Shortly after this, we attended a meeting and heard this story about a group of people known as the Bhutanese refugees.  Immediately, we felt compassion for them and the story of their lives and wanted to hear more.  We quickly jumped to the first opportunity to be a part of serving them.

Over the span of several months our lives became very connected to this community.  We learned about their culture, their story and the substantial barriers they face in the resettlement process. Imagine entire families, young and old, facing the challenge of a new life in a new country that is extremely different from where they came from. The change from the refugee camps to a North American city in the Midwest could not be more dramatic.

We learned very quickly that even the most minor tasks (such as driving, setting up bank accounts, paying hospital bills, mowing the lawn…etc.) were very difficult for them in this new contrasting culture.  So we began to serve them and show them the love of Christ through word and deed in the best way that we knew how.

Today, these wonderful people are our friends.   In serving them and helping them become successful in this strange new culture we have been filled with compassion and feel the deepest honor to be a part of their lives.  They have taught us so much about hospitality, community and friendship.  Our lives will never be the same and our hope and prayer is that, through the mighty hand of God, we might have as much impact on their lives as they have had on ours.